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Entries for July, 2009

July 20th, 2009

Undefeatable statements

Posted by ardianto86 at 07:05 AM on July 20, 2009.

When someone accuses another person of being insane, those statements are considered undefeatable. Statements are undefeatable when the person who is accused with such statements are unable to argue in order to separate himself/herself from an accusation. Other examples are when parents always tell their children that they don't really understand things because they don't have enough experiences yet. Another is when a person accuses the other person that he/she will not be able to understand him/her because he/she has not undergone similar circumstances. True, those accusations are probably undefeatable, but not all. For cases in which a person is called as insane, he/she might probably defend himself by acting in a way a supposedly sane person would act. But that would convince the accuser only if the accuser is open to that possibility, or in other words, have 'reasons' for his/her claims. But sometimes such statements are not backed up with a reasonable claim, or the reason might not be that obvious and its terms and conditions can't really be spelled out explicitly. True, human beings are limited, and biased in their views. We are not perfectly logical beings is a fact that we need to admit. Thus, I feel that although certain such claims are fine (as perhaps it requires an element of subjective knowledge in the third case), in other cases reasons has to be reasonably spelt out. Or else parents would always accuse their children as being naive no matter how much their children have learnt. In such cases, it is always better to not utter such 'undefeatable statements' but it is better to give an example of how the other party fails to meet certain standards.. well..assuming its not limited by the other persons limitations..

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July 27th, 2009

On growing up..

Posted by ardianto86 at 07:06 AM on July 27, 2009.

Why is it when we grow up, everything seems like making you disappointed? Why is that all ideals have to go and that we have to learn to face the ugly reality? Why is it when we look back everything seems beautiful and you want to turn back the time again? Life now seems so rigid, and week after week is almost the same, busy at work, spend time with boyfriend/girlfriend, go to church on sundays, etc.. I feel aimless. I'm not happy simply because I landed on a job and have income. The fact is, I don't really know what I want, or what can make me happy. Some people say i'm still young and that I have to enjoy. In fact, I don't really know how or what to enjoy. When age presses, you have to plan and prepare everything, and its as if time is passing by very quickly. I miss my days as an undergrad where I can study, have friends, fellowships. Though projects are heavy, but undergrad days are memorable and its much better than this pressure of growing up when you started working..

I like this song, it reminds me of childhood: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pj83RY4Gybg&feature=PlayList&p=4C95EA3EA07D7D56&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=26

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